Saturday, October 10, 2009

cold enough

oh yes, a market day chilly enough for me to wear both my boots and my hat!! which is a good thing, because going to bed with my hair wet last night made for a messy nest this morning.




the weather has been predictably nutty for our part of the world. it's as though this region goes, 'fall shmall, we like our people perennially dewy and in shorts, yo'. all week it was pretty warm, rainy, and extremely muggy, which resulted in an explosion of mosquitoes and other bugs, as well as all sorts of vegetation. on one of my walks in the park I noticed 'shrooms dotting the lawn:



our little rose bush out back was even tricked into sprouting a couple of buds:



I don't know how farmers manage to read the weather well enough to know when to plant/harvest. seriously. this morning at t'afia, I heard a couple of them talking about getting things picked before the rain this week, and how if it's too muddy you can't do it. I like that we're getting a little more familiar with the local farmers and vendors. we picked up more of the amazing andouille from Al, the Grateful Bread guy, along with some chicken-apple-cinnamon sausage that totally tickled our tastebuds, hit the Indian and cheese booths again, and got a smattering of veggies out front. I picked up a bunch of collard greens because they looked so fresh and green, and a little lady told me how to make them flavorful... I don't know that I've actually ever tried them before and M is dubious, so I'm hoping to sell us both on them this week. I'm also looking forward to making a sauteed squash pizza with buttercup and sweet dumpling squash and fresh mozarella... and maybe another rat-tat-too-ee...

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our good friends the Sargents are currently exploring the New England area, and their travels reminded me of our trip to Boston a couple of years ago. we had such a good time... I really loved the wealth of things to do there, and particularly enjoyed The Freedom Trail and the opportunity to learn so much American History while getting a ton of exercise. :) here are a few pics of our time there: (I had to do a bit of internet searching to refresh myself of some names/events... I wish I'd paid more attention in History class back in the day!)




Boston Common:



the beginning of the red line that leads you on the Freedom Trail:




the Old State House, where the Declaration of Independence was read aloud from the balcony to the people down below. the circle of cobblestones commemorates the Boston Massacre:


the Paul Revere statue and the Old North Church (the oldest standing church in Boston with the highest steeple), where lanterns would be lit in the tower to signal how the British were arriving... one if by land, two if by sea...


the USS Constitution... Old Ironsides herself.


I chose to look up the Charleston Navy yard, and on the bottom of the National Park Service webpage for the yard was this funny tidbit:

Did You Know?
The Internal Revenue Service used to conduct ceremonies rewarding its best collectors and other employees at Faneuil Hall? Considering that Faneuil Hall was the site of some notable tax resistance meetings before The Revolution, we must conclude that the IRS does have a sense of humor after all.



that's the Bunker Hill monument back there on top of Breed's Hill, where the Trail ends. when you're standing up there, the words 'don't shoot until you see the whites of their eyes' take on a whole different meaning. (their ammunition was limited, so the Colonial militia had to wait for the British to get close enough so their defensive attacks were the most effective. the British eventually captured the Hill, but on the third try and not without suffering a lot of casualties.)


romantic street lamps.


we ended our day of historic sight-seeing at this wonderful, small, family-owned Italian restaurant. we were walking around looking for a place to eat and noticed a line out the front door of this place. a woman waiting for her table told us that we wouldn't regret the wait, and she was absolutely right.


can't wait to see your pictures, Chels! hope you guys are having a lovely time.

-m.y.

Friday, October 9, 2009

sharing

we bought these samosas at the t'afia market last Saturday, and I must report that they are the freaking bomb. absolutely delicious, no joke. Nisha's Indian Food is produced locally and is sold at certified farmer's markets around town. at $8 per bag (5 samosas to a bag) they weren't cheap, but were a wonderful, spicy treat and I love that you simply pop them in the oven for a few minutes. we ate our chicken samosas with cashew carrot ginger soup and a cucumber-garlic-red pepper awesome sauce that M concocted. I think it would be fun to learn to make chutney to go with them, too.




and speaking of treats, here's a fun image to usher in the cooler weekend:




-m.y.

Thursday, October 8, 2009

linda b.'s birthday feast

what did this lady want for her birthday? dinner, cooked by her three boys. they're total pros... observe:




the menu was a salad of cucumber, red onion, olives, red pepper, cherry tomatoes, capers, and feta with a tangy vinagrette. then Tuscan roast (delectable), an assortment of sausages and roasted mushrooms and carrots, tarragon butter baby new potatoes, citrus green beans, and a fruit tart for dessert with pumpkin spice decaf.





it was all veryvery good, and hanging out with everyone was such a fun time. happy birthday, lindabell!

love,

-m.y.

Saturday, October 3, 2009

market day

it's a new month... which means it's time for a new grocery envelope.



original artwork credited to MGB. one of the comments we've gotten repeatedly about this part of our financial plan is people's uncertainty about carrying envelopes with cold hard cash in them. it's not horribly structured or anything... we have a grocery envelope, an entertainment envelope, a restaurant envelope, and an envelope for presents for people with birthdays, weddings, and baby showers in October. oh, and a Christmas envelope we add to every month. most other things we handle via debit card, online payment, etc. I've never been scared about carrying cash vs. debit card, even before we met Mr. Ramsey... I actually prefer cash, as it tends to save time. one of the things I hope to teach any future children I may have is to always carry some cash... you never know when you'll need it, but if you need to pay to park/take the toll road/pay back a friend/pitch in for the check/give it away/etc. you'll be glad you have it. the nice thing about the envelope system is that you know exactly what you're budgeting/spending - once the envelope is empty, you're done. or you play the 'raid other envelopes' game. :)

LB met up with us this morning to head out to grocery shop... we hadn't seen her in awhile, and in addition to enjoying her company we needed to do a bit of shopping for her upcoming birthday dinner (Mom, yours is almost here, too!). we started the day at t'afia:




sampling local cheeses:


the guy over there on the other side of this curtain is local and makes THE BEST andouille sausage! holy smokes, it's very very special. and currently in our freezer.


next door to him was the local Indian food booth. part of us going back to t'afia this week with our brand new grocery envelope was to nab the andouille and the refrigerated chicken samosas. so flipping good.

up next was Canino's, where M's brother M joined us (there he is, in the blue shirt):



everything was so pretty, I just wanted to take pictures of it.






spices, spices galore:


tamale fixin's, spicy cinnamon sticks, and peppers everywhere:


this guy said he'd picked his oranges a couple of days ago... they didn't look so hot, frankly, but who are we to not buy local oranges offered in October?!


as is evidenced in above photos, so many of the vendors sell the same produce that they all seem to be vying for the title of 'prettiest display'. who wouldn't want these gorgeous, artistically positioned carrots?! except you can't split them up... and that's a lot of carrot for two people.


since we've been baking our own bread the last few weeks, I was happy to find this local wheat flour, for a very reasonable price. you should've seen the selection of dried beans.


we left Canino's and went to Central Market to do a bit more shopping... as posted on CS's comments, I can't wait to break out the Pumpkin Spice decaf. upon arriving home, we talked about how we still sometimes experience a bit of sticker shock at CM... we know why we're buying certain things there and we're choosing to do it on principle (organic/fair trade/free-range/local/etc), but it's still an adjustment and balancing act. for example, my organic maple syrup... made of 100% pure maple syrup... is SO much more expensive that the old Aunt Jemima Lite with it's crazy list of fructosed cellulose sodium hexametaphosphate.

what I'm mostly thinking about at the moment, though, is the truly astounding amount of food I've seen (and tasted) today, and about how there are places where so many are struggling to find enough food to eat. not that there aren't people in the U.S. who struggle with feeding themselves, but this girl is in a place most of us can only imagine. her blog has a link for donations but if you'd like to do something extra to help that ministry check out this blog (see her latest post, plus her initial post about katie on 9/15). thanks, Jenn @ buildingmommymuscles, for making me aware of both of those blogs.

I've got to go work on scarves.

-m.y.

Thursday, October 1, 2009

wild things

I hadn't seen this version of the trailer for Where The Wild Things Are... for some reason, it makes me a bit teary:




this book made me a bit apprehensive when I was little... I think it was the drawings of the monsters. or maybe it was Max being so naughty. at any rate, I don't think you can help feeling something when you read or look at it. wikepedia says that it's only ten sentences long, so I'll be interested to see how Spike Jonze filled in the story. it LOOKS so wonderful! somehow nostalgic and magical. there were apparently issues with the monsters and the story that had to be seriously reworked... read more trivia about the film here.

for my yarn-loving friends, I was reading about this darling-sounding store this morning... maybe we could give it a go sometime. they sound like nice ladies, and it might be fun to go sit and knit on a Thursday evening and make friends. today I should be getting October's blow money, and have high hopes of purchasing lovely yarn with some of it.

I'm also thinking about how grateful I am for our latest FPU class. in addition to those we knew were coming, four people showed up for the first class that we'd never seen before, having found our listing online. I hope they all decide to come back. I was in the other room tending to little L, but could still hear a lot of what was going on and the vibe sounded so good and positive. it's so much nicer to walk through personal examination, change, and challenges with others who can offer you support. after doing our budget last night, we estimated that we're a couple of months away from our next goal of 'baby step three'. it's taken longer to accomplish this one than we'd have liked... lovely summer vacations and things might have slowed down our savings plan a little... but really I'm just so thankful.

Monday, September 28, 2009

psychedelic cow beans

happy new week, citizens. my Native American name today is Coffee Flowum Freely. so many blogging topics swirling around in my head... that's what I get for not posting for a week.

firstly, foodie business. here's a representative pic of the spoils of our most recent farmer's market outing at t'afia:



when we got home, husband used his cooking prowess to make me this delectable thing:



the great difference between Canino's market and t'afia is that at t'afia you're definitely getting local products, which meant there wasn't as great a variety of choice as Canino's in terms of products and it was a bit more expensive (I think we spent about 30 bucks). some of our groceries (okra, little eggplants, and sweet potato tops) came from a community garden in the 5th ward, mushrooms and bell pepper from another local farm, new potatoes from another, cheese from another, and yard eggs from another. We sampled other tasty treats, and are excited to purchase other offerings in the future when our grocery envelope has a bit more cash in it (especially some locally made andouille sausage and refrigerated chicken samosas, both of which knocked me out). Canino's and their vendors have a ton of food available, much of it still acquired from California and whatnot (or wherenot). frankly, I enjoy the shopping experience of both. t'afia had some really cool specialty items... booths with beautiful oragami mobiles and framed art, gorgeous and delicate jewelry and accessories, and locally made seasonal soaps and face scrubs. not cheap... but sort of special, if you're in the market for that.

in rifling through my podcasts this week, I came across this one, Hands Off My Haagen-Dazs And IKEA on NPR's Talk of the Nation, featuring guest Charlotte Allen. Ms. Allen wrote this op ed piece in the LA Times recently, calling out food snobs everywhere. personally, I find the whole thing pretty funny, as Ms. Allen comes off just as humorously snarky and pretentious in her defense of cheap food and derision of various social critics as anyone in the hardcore locavore camp. while I support the freedom of folks to spend their dollars as they see fit, I don't have much admiration for her reasoning that because we're in a recession we should naturally migrate to the cheapest options available regardless of quality or product history, for food or anything else. nor do I think that people who decide to seek out products based on different criteria such as seasonality, manufacturing information, etc - yes, even in a recession - fall into the category of snobby elitism. what's so wrong with choosing to eat foods in season? is it so offensive to us to endorse personal limits of the dietary variety? so odd that such an idea should be connoted with elitism, especially in a nation that touts diets based on people depriving themselves of entire categories of food, like carbs, as a healthy eating option. and finally, my other problem with the way Ms. Allen's represented herself in both articles is her seemingly flippant attitude toward the economic realities of the actual local farmer and the effect our spending patterns have on anything outside of our borders....'that problem's in Mexico, what can we do about it? that's their problem, now give me my cheap strawberries in the dead of winter.' I think a lot of us share this tension of local/global responsibility to varying degrees about a myriad issues, but that doesn't make our stubborn "I want my cheap stuff!" stance any more attractive or ethical.

speaking of ethics, Ms. Allen suggests that foodies and locavores are out-of-touch nutjobs for encouraging people to spend more money on food even as jobs are disappearing and Americans are seeing how far they can stretch their bucks. true, many people find themselves in uncertain and scary economic times, but I wish she'd addressed the topic a little more in-depth - which, I must say, is my primary dislike of extreme pieces like this on either side of an issue... IMO, if you want to be most effective in stating your thesis, demonstrate that you've listened to and fully understand where the other side is coming from. the argument for spending more - or just differently - on food and choosing a better food product, while certainly tied to and affected by environmental and other factors for some people, is fundamentally based on perceptions of health: what are you choosing to put into your body to make it run? if that question becomes important to you, you'll try to make room for the answer that works for you, just as we attempt to make room for any other commodity/benefit we really want (not that that means we can always have it). for some of us, we ARE willing to forego extraneous costs in other budget areas, because we think our food choices might be more important to our overall health and well-being over the long haul. ELITIST JERK, WANTING TO BE HEALTHIER!! just jokes, didn't mean to shout at you there. I also think her points could come across a bit condescending to people on tight budgets, many of whom still manage to work long hours, avoid the dollar menu at Jack in the Box, and quietly structure their time to serve their families many whole or home-prepared foods. I was telling the husband that I'm not convinced that buying from farmer's markets (and using the local grocery store in tandem/supplementally) is that much more expensive than buying everything at your local Kroger or HEB, depending on how you choose to shop and the types of food you're looking for. I think it all lends itself to being very adaptable, if a person wanted to spend a little extra time shopping (which is probably one of the biggest issues... grocery stores are an easier 'one stop shop'). in our experience so far, we're not buying a lot of extra, processed/long-storage goods to stock our pantry... we're tending to purchase more fresh foods which is forcing us to eat what we've bought with whatever we already have in various combinations over the week before they spoil. plus, we haven't been buying as much meat (though our sausage/bacon consumption might have spiked since we found the both 'natural' and Texan Pedersdon's Farms brand) don't get me wrong, though... we still spent all of our grocery money this month.

one more little observation... I do think these topics also come down to people's preferences, and as much as I enjoy good debate I wish we -collectively - didn't feel a need to express our own likes in the context of villainizing another. preferences are feelings, and are highly individual. mine are subject to change a lot, too. we're enjoying our various food experiments, undoubtedly, but I wouldn't make value judgements about how other people choose to feed their families. as I've heard, "it's safe to assume that people are generally trying to do their best with what they've got".

and the best I've got today involves dried 'cow' beans (because they're totally black and white) in the crock pot with some onion and a chunk of the pork loin we defrosted yesterday. dried beans are such a good, cheap option, and I LOVE any sort of bean under the sun... my main issue is remembering to put them on to soak the night before.


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the other night we thawed some Christian Cattle Company beef patties (thanks, Mom and Dad!) to grill up burgers. at one point, M came inside, handed me one of those hand lighter things, and told me to follow him outside. with Chino pacing around our legs and sniffing longingly at the grill, M read the oncologist's report from this month a year ago, when a growth was removed from our sweet old dog's mouth and found to be malignant. the prognosis wasn't good... Chi was given a matter of months before they thought his health would start deteriorating. the medical options were both invasive and expensive, so we decided to allow our dog to live as many days as God would let him while we spoiled him a bit and made the most of our time together. here we are, a year later, and he's still with us. we commemorated the anniversary by ceremoniously burning the report in our chiminea and giving this good dog a hamburger.

lookee!! the husband *just* forwarded this email correspondence:

Good Day Dr. E,

Last year we visited your office with our dog Pacino after a malignant growth was found in his mouth by his GP. You took care of him and presented us with some options, which unfortunately were well beyond what we could spend to fight canine cancer. So we decided to do nothing, and let him live the rest of his days with a little bit table food and new chew toys until he appeared uncomfortable. I remember you suggested that he would have about 4 months.

I know that where you work you deal with a lot of terminally sick pets and parents who have to cope with losing someone they've loved for a decade, the same as losing a young child. I can't say that I know what it takes to work in that environment every day. So I thought you'd like to know that Pacino is still with us, a year later, with no signs of slowing down. He loves to play and run, he still jumps up on furniture he shouldn't, he still brings us his toys to let us know it's time to give him attention. All of the things that make him who he is are still there, every day. Since our trip to your office we've lived every day with Pacino as a special one, and that has made the last year more significant for all of us.

MGB


and her response:

I am so happy to hear the "good stories". I always love it when they exceed our expectations. You have the right mind set- just cherish each day you get and love him to the fullest. Spoil him rotten!

Dr E



so sweet. :) I love that M thought to write her.


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the other night, we took in the Happy Mondays and Psychedelic Furs at the House of Blues. I really had a fun time... I didn't get a good pic of the Happy Mondays, but they put on a super fun, groovin' show and I liked them a lot. here are pics of the PFs... M joked that their lead singer looks like an architect, or a software developer. they were great, and still sounded like themselves. here's a little clip of 'Pretty in Pink':








I'll close this entry with some random pics from the last week or so. note my choice to break out the UGGS even though we've only really had one cool day so far. I'd wear these babies all year 'round if I could.







-m.y.

Saturday, September 19, 2009

tonight...

I am loving this song, over and over and over.





I'm thankful for a day that involved M getting to New Orleans safely, the first wearing of my UGGS this season, a breakfast of sugary beignet and cafe au lait from Crescent City Beignets, an afternoon of rest. AND... I am reminded of why I'm so grateful for programs with steps to work and people to drink coffee and journey with. it sounds like a horribly judgemental thing to say - I write that thinking that maybe by acknowledging my judgement I'm absolving myself of it, heh, I kill me - but really... the crux of it is that I think everyone should be so fortunate as to be in a program. I'm not kidding. not that I wish addiction or insanity on anyone, but to me recovery is about living as a human being, walking around and dealing with your world and changing to meet it, or not. and we all do that, and we all falter at some point and could stand some confession, humility, perspective, and good, trusted company. and that's what I have. excellent, quality company, fearless and gentle and flawed and family. the quality of both the people in my life and that of my problems has only increased over time, and for both I'm on-my-knees-grateful to you, God.


and now, because it's just great, here's a video of a high school performing a Mates of State song in six-part harmony. I adore it.



for the 'real' verson, go here. we love this band.